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Thank you, Papa. You taught me to speak up against evil, the hard way.

There are times when I see my female friends on the roads and in the bars at night. Brave, they are! Where I am quietly hiding inside my 3 BHK apartment with my parents, after 6 in the evening, my friends beg me to accompany them to the nearby club. Maybe something is wrong with the clothes they wear shamefully, expecting me to dress up the same. “Sorry, I can’t”, I told them. My parents would not be able to see me like that.

I once saw my friend kiss another boy when she was dating her boyfriend since last 4 long months. I won’t lie; I called her a ‘slut’ in my mind and thought of never befriending such assholes.

Earlier, I did not know why I never broke the shackles of my introversion. Also, I did not know why I never followed my friends to the bar. When my friend was abducted from the streets last week, my father came into my room and gently spoke, “This is the reason why we always tell you to not go out after 6. I cannot let you go out of my life.” Now, I know the reason for my father’s resistance to me going out at night, and I genuinely think it is for my own good.

I am my father’s princess. Fortunately, I was provided the most a daughter can wish for. As far as I can remember, I and my father share the very best and worse times of our lives together.
There are times when I need a friend for motivation, he is there.
There are times when I need a shoulder to cry on, he is there.
My beloved father always reminds me that I am his princess and it is his responsibility to take care of me. I think that is why he has taken time out of his busy schedule to bathe with me these days. “To clean one’s body is the most important thing”, he says.

I sometimes hope that I could ask my mother to bathe with us and have fun together, but I cannot, for I have been sworn by my sweet daddy that I will not tell anyone about our secret!

Love you, Daddy!

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